.Or they chose to live in a relationship lied to a woman, have a bunch of kids and acted like assholes and destroyed the family. Then, because they were not a real person, because they never developed a sense of self, they became a narcissistic sociopath and took it out on everyone around them, as they appeared to be charming. A lot of our social issues and antisocial behavior is due to repression. So even your enemy is somewhat of a victim, but it doesn’t give him an excuse to harm you. I believe in behavior modification. Most boomers are conformist cowards with no good advice. I kick these bastards out of the closet. I got a gaydar