• SoftTeeth@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Blahaj can start fostering an inclusive community and stop legitimizing trolls whenever they want drama to stop

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      2 days ago

      Fighting trolls should not be done by invalidating neopronouns, speak to anyone that uses neopronouns and they’ll likely tell you that it quickly cascades into witch hunting.

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                2 days ago

                It’s just basic maffs, Cowbee:

                1. Any given opinion can only be held by one person in the universe.
                2. Admin Ada @ blahaj and you have the same opinion regarding neopronouns.
                3. Therefore you and Ada incontrovertibly must be the same person.
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            Not sure I agree as it seems like black and white thinking.

            I.e. I could imagine a scenario where someone is very obviously/admits to using neopronouns disingenuously and that would break my social contract with them to honour it.

            If I make an assessment of neopronoun usage on a case by case basis I can still avoid witch hunts. It’s similar to how I determine in real life if someone is an asshole or not.

            Another way; I can support a person who I genuinely believe uses neopronouns while denouncing and excluding someone who doesn’t.

            • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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              2 days ago

              It is a very tricky slope. It’s best to never compromise on neopronoun usage even with suspected trolls, they can be discredited without erasing the pronouns.