

I knew a woman who gets very anxious if she meets someone with her deadname. She couldn’t be friend with and tries to not speak with the deadnamed person, etc. I hope it’s better know.
I often meet people with my born name, I don’t really care. I mean, I met people with this name before changing mine so it’s ok, it’s a very common name. I have a friend named like that. The hard thing is to not react to the name.
5 or 0 for me. It’s a little annoying. So if someone wants to change to another volume, I close my eyes and it’s OK. Under 10, all numbers become acceptable.