What do you mean? My partner and I use the same Immich server, but I don’t see her photos unless they are explicitly shared.

Canadian here, yes please

Immich is apparently not on not changing the original file. This was learnt by me when I used their storage template feature to rename all of my and my partner’s images when uploaded to our server to a single, unified, agreed upon structure. And then, when we made an album and downloaded that album, were confused to find out that the files were all the original filenames, not the new structure. A little bit annoying imho, but Immich is still great.

You make a new account.

Yes, I established that was an exaggeration for effect. 👍

What did you mean by this?

That I love my partner very much.

And yet you decided to continue this thread by saying that you weren’t exaggerating.

In fact, I never said that.

Of course the %age I used was an exaggeration. Sorry, was this conversation being driven by the assumption that it wasn’t? I exaggerated to make my point.

Häagen-Dazs was never European.

I think you drastically underestimate how much I love my partner.

I wouldn’t say it’s an anxiety, I’d say it’s a cost-benefit analysis I’ve done and decided that having cell service to catch a potential emergency call is more important to me than that one extra level of privacy like OP. Hell, I don’t want to miss a call even if it isn’t an emergency. I love my partner and want to talk to them any chance I can get; if they’re calling I want to answer.

I would not be comfortable not having mobile signal. Public WiFi is not going to cut it. Even a 0.00001% chance that I’d miss an important call from my partner is no bueno for me.

I’m not an expert, take this with a very big grain of salt.

But I think what you want here is for your home server tailscale to act as an exit node for your remote connection.

This will mean that your phone for example will route traffic through your home server, using its AdGuard DNS.

You can even set it up to conditionally use it as an exit mode, iirc.

Don’t threaten me with a good time.

It is the article, to be fair.

I’ve been using Nova for, gods, something like five years now or more.

What are some good ones these days? When I started using Nova, it was very highly recommended.

That’s a strange choice.

Awesome work!

So, I think you’re bang on here. The exports reveal that the info is included like so:

item1.X-ABDATE:20160302
item1.X-ABLabel:Death

My cursory searching tells me that this isn’t outside of the CardDAV/vCard spec per se, but that the X- signifies “extension”, aka basically, info that is being included but may only be read by apps that specifically know to look for it.

Now I need to decide if I’d rather have them show up as death anniversaries on my android calendar but not show up at all on my desktop clients, or redo those dates to be maybe a note or something though then they won’t sync to a calendar, or remove it entirely from the contact and instead just have it as an event on my calendar that repeats. Hmm…

Thanks for the idea though, it got me to look at the file itself which was very helpful!

Interesting, I hadn’t even considered that the apps could have been doing something other than CardDAV. I’ll have to look into this angle more. Damn shame if true.