Yeah, I just want the results of the secondary poll that asks the why. It’d be interesting just to see the real answers.

I’m now curious what those 6% were thinking. The no is basically the default. What males those few say they want to join the US?

Stress is the obvious answer. You won’t be able to guess what is causing it, so don’t start speculating. You can try to impress upon her that you are a safe outlet for that stress if you are able and willing to really be that for her, (Don’t just jump at it because you are curious. You might not like what comes from it, and it’s worse to pull back after the fact than to not offer at all.) or you can just be a source of stability while she works through it herself. Use your best judgement.