Yeah basically what you wrote is accurate. No therapy though. She won’t take it. I asked several times.
I think the crux of issue is a blame myself for all this. I get told no " it’s not you, it’s me" but I still feel like a failure of a partner.
::Insert no money for anything but war meme::
Would be nice if that money went into schools, medical, housing…etc
Funny part is it looks sci-fi to me.
Having worked with people in that industry they don’t care. They always just want to shake things up then move to next thing to say they did something at their old job. Then forget all about it once they did the next thing.
Not OP case but 2 decades later with no change is demoralizing.
Nothing has worked consistently.
Does she enjoy it? sometimes but It’s like taking out the trash. 0 sex again would have zero impact. Liquor helps but only drinks at restaurants and only with a meal. So 99% of the time, just too full to make use of it. Suspected the bc but she was off them for a few years, no change. No medication either. Lost weight 0 change. In college, we thought it was Stress levels but it’s lower now with no change.
Now no cuddles or daily massages would be an issue for her. Withhold for a few days and watch that blow up.
It’s always been a chasm in the relationship.
my partner just want cuddles.
I like eating peaches!
We are not the same.
What if she’s been on BC for almost 20 years and never masturbates ever because it doesn’t “work” Toys also do not “work”. Also eating peach with different methods with genuine enthusiasm doesn’t work.
Note: This is not /s I’m being legit.
As it should be!
Depending on what causes the sterility it could be managed through diffecountries. It’s like huge spark to class warfare instantly. especially for less well off counrries.
Is he implying people will want to go to mars to get away from Trumps America?
That was a horror cause he wasn’t willing. If he was willing then it would be like cult mechanicus, ghost in the shell, or Adam smasher. Embrace the certainly of steel! Or course if your brain is damaged and you can’t die that is a curse.
Vampires are always like this in stories. I feel like reality might be more like ergo proxy. Where what is a relationship that tastes 10 or 200 years compared to thousands?
Sounds like you have time to figure out alternatives. Like cyborgetics or using cloned parts.
Ah Elon most love all this extra code being written. If course it’s super inefficient but look at all those lines sooo much code.
Lucky it fell onto the concrete floor. I was late for class so didn’t assess the damage.
Dropped a Nokia down 6 flights of stairs. Didn’t even scratch.
Well if you kill him we go to the Red Alert timeline.
What do I even describe this to a therapist as? My partner doesn’t want say they are asexual but all the signs are there. Help me be cool with it when I’m the literal opposite end of the spectrum? I feel if I stop trying, then that’s me giving up on her.