• finestnothing@lemmy.world
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      20 days ago

      The phrase taking it up the ass isn’t homophobia, it means you’re getting fucked by them and not in a good way just like everyone else.

      Everyone has a butthole in which to get fucked without lube by canonical, but at least they don’t wrap it in sandpaper like Apple or use a nail-ridden baseball bat like Microsoft. Arch and nix go slow and use plenty of lube, embrace gently butt stuff from your os.

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        20 days ago

        it means you’re getting fucked by them and not in a good way

        So anal sex is a not-good way to have sex? Yeah sorry but that does sound pretty homophobic to me.

        without lube

        Ah, well that changes things. Anal without lube is a pretty universally bad experience, so sure, use that. But just framing being the receiving end of anal as bad without further context, we can do better than that, that’s all im saying