It looks like they have some kind of whitelist set up, limiting federation to the big instances, which seems like a strange thing for one of the small instances to do.

  • splinter@hilariouschaos.com
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    23 hours ago

    Hey, I just randomly stumbled on this and thought I’d give you a reply, for what it’s worth. We’ve got a whitelist because there are thousands of Fediverse instances out there and many of them host questionable content (things like loli porn). It’s too much risk to ignore them, and too much effort to weed them out.

    We’ve added everyone listed on join-lemmy.org who hasn’t de-federated us. I guess if you’re not on there then we just haven’t noticed you yet. I’ve added your instance to our whitelist now.

    If anyone else also wants to be added and isn’t yet, please do reach out.

    As you can tell by the comments in this thread, many people feel like they know us well based on what they have heard. I guess we are guilty of having a handful of members who used to be on the old exploding-heads instance, so we must be EH 2.0. All anyone would have to do is open our site and browse through the endless pages of shitposts for themselves to figure out how silly that is.

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      19 hours ago

      All sounds reasonable. I think I just had an instant eye-roll reaction to the crack about “shitty admins” as the reason for your unusual configuration and making me do extra work to talk with you, and decided not to bother. But sure, if you want to talk with me I’ve got nothing against it.

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    11 days ago

    I think you just answered your own question. If ponder.cat isn’t on their white list, content won’t federate.

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        11 days ago

        That’s a question for the admins there, but HC is the spiritual successor of, and ran by the same team as, ExplodingHeads. EH was frequently defederated for homophobia, transphobia, bigotry, racism, conspiracy, brigading, hate speech, and general toxicity.

        I’m not sure if they’ve cleaned up their act since rebranding, but maybe they figured they’d start out with just the big instances since they were frequently de-federated before?

        Context:

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          11 days ago

          ran by the same team as ExplodingHeads.

          EH was one guy who fucked off to NOSTR because he held free speech higher than the opinion of Lemmy.ml, Lemmygrad and the likes who dominated the Lemmyverse in the beginning. I’m pretty sure it’s someone else.

        • Draconic NEO@lemmy.world
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          10 days ago

          My theory is that they’re doing it to try and avoid defederation and bide their time until they can figure out a way to circumvent it, like was done with Mastodon defederation with activitypub-troll. Thankfully many instances haven’t fallen for it and have defederated them anyway despite not being whitelisted by them.

        • PhilipTheBucket@ponder.catOP
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          11 days ago

          Preemptive defederation, along the same lines as, “You can’t fire me, I quit!”?

          I’m just trying to wrap my head around it. I’m was asking because another of their communities is coming up for posting in my community tool. Thanks for the link.

          We’re not federated because it’s just too much drama and not enough reward. There are too many instances, many of them inactive, lots of people uploading sketchy shit which federates across, it’s impossible to keep tabs on everything and lots of resources go into hosting that bloat which nobody here would care about. Fediverse politics are also cancer and every shitty admin thinks they’re important somehow.

          I’m not opposed to federating selectively, with your instance for example. I mostly care about knowing that you actively admin it and I don’t have to worry about dodgy content making its way across here - if that’s the case and you’re keen, let me know.

          My God.

          Since they’ve decided I’m a shitty admin, I’ve instructed the community posting tool to skip over their stuff, and I consider the matter closed. I wish them luck.

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            11 days ago

            It’s nice when the uh, um, jerks? self-segregate. Saves so much time having to filter them out.

            (Also it was kinda obvious they were twats when their admin team was spamming new community communities with endless stupid groups.)

        • PhilipTheBucket@ponder.catOP
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          11 days ago

          That’s what I’m doing, although anyone else who happens to know what’s going on is free to answer as well. I don’t feel like making an alt just to dodge around whatever they’re doing.